Obviously, each sign deals with sadness differently, which might be why you feel a deeper connection between you and certain people more than with others; when you get into your lowest lows, these people just get what you're feeling, even without words. Pretty damn true. What The. Here's why. I want to know what's going wrong because I'm doing all the right things but all I'm getting is disappointment. While we were dating i let her know about my one true longtime best friend which was my first ex (gemini)from high school yrs (different schools). If you piss off or let a Libran down, do not both trying to: because they know what you did and your ability to do it again. But when with him, its a real fight not to let myself go to that dark, vindictive, ruthless place. Libra men often have a hard time speaking their feelings, and they often bottle up their emotions. Done. So to say my ability to maintain connection is fucked is putting it mildly. Most Libras are quick to put a wall up to protect themselves from insecure, jealous, judgemental, negative, condescending people who attack them. I want to build you up, only to make you look like a fool and encourage you to make the wrong decisions for my amusement. 4.) My partner and her don't have a friendship. We were staying in a very beautiful hotel and this was Christmas Eve. ( baring in mind her parents live 5 minutes from her home and she's close to them, she alledges to have 2 childhood friends who live near her too.. she didn't turn to them.) I highly value: integrity, loyalty, honesty, and friendship. I avoid confrontations and drama if at all possible. Super selfish people who never know what they want and live in fear of being alone, that's why they are easy to jump in a new relationship super fast. i hope she can just control herself from now on and never treat my daughter the way she treated us. All libras say that hate being embarassed; so much that they are willing to betray someone or talk shit about someone else in public to distract everyone's attention from their flaws or faults. Lol, so true. There is a reason why they say Librans make good judges, its because we are able to take every situation or event and tear it down to it's nuts and bolts to see what's really within. We hate stupidity and ignorance.we despise people and things of lower standards and we can not stand people that are rude and careless and not considerate and especially those who lack diplomacy and manners. Oh! I honestly think they smell it. The negative side of Libra is hard to bear. This can be dangerous for Libra when it comes to relationships, as they tend to put the needs of their partner above their own, especially Libra men. They hate themselves most times and only thru relarionships do they function on a higher level and learn about themselves. I can't stand Libras never again. They lie and pretend they are fine. I'm a Libra with lots of planets in Scorpio. That is the only way you can truly be loyal. When he offers and insists, i decline. Everything in this article rings true. Because the same person who, held your hands, hugged you and said everything will be ok we're going to get through this together, will be the same person who tells your weak, thats why these things happen. Librans are extroverted, cosy, and friendly people. I was overwhelmed and tearful as it was my dad who gave me it in advance, and it was the first time he told me he loved me - I am telling her the story, she wasn't interested and tried to turn it all back to her new Prey, a new man. How? Last Updated on October 31, 2020 by Sloane Marie. but I have no clue and it's alright, because I chose to be independent and learn to live without having a partner, because I want to have natural goodness in me and not all the fake stuff. Things that does not warrant attention would end up being scrutinized and judged and harshest of words will be exchanged.its PATHETIC!!! she is a full blown malignant narcissist. Guys you are reading an article about the DARK SIDE of Libra, of course you are going to read a lot of bad things! I fucking hate myself when I'm grumpy and it makes it even worse. I didn't realize it until reading some of the things and saw it was talking about me. The other libra I know, is charming also. Who could hate Gandhi? I spent 2 hours on that phone listening to her sob story and when I put the phone down, she remained in my head, like a mosquito biting my brain, irritating, annoying and. poisonous. She should be recognized for this and given her Propers. Their kids are not allowed to love anyone but her, the mother. Thank you. When charged with bad behavior, they will say, Oh, Im such a bad person. My behavior is actually a slight reflection of yours. They may feel so lopsided, they'll stop caring about their favorite things, even severing ties with their passions completely. I was a happy child and hate confrontation and lose all my lovely articulation abilities in the face of hate and nastiness. I am leaving him in God's hands because I know one day he will pay for all these sick acts he's committed. I'm super proud to be one. I also appreciate the creativity of this author by portraying Libra's negative image since I was really bored of those charming and peaceful stories about Libras ..cheers and peace. They will bottle up their feelings and keep it to themselves instead of being advocates of communication in relationships. I am a libra my self and the main thing about being a libra is emotions libras value there emotions so much it is everything to them.when libras are sad it is so hard to get there trust.when a fight happens with there friends they will get so emotional that they become a monster they never want to even think about being but they dont realise. If you're into astrology and zodiac signs, you know the general personality traits and mannerisms for each sign especially your own. If you make the point to be present in her life, then she will appreciate the support that you are offering her. I have a Libra sister. Ive had so many ppl misuse me and take advantage of me but soon as I react Im the crazy one, I am a Libra and I can tell u when u make a Libra mad they get quit and when that happens the best thing to do is leave cause they are about to snap, Aries women here I have a Libra soon to b ex friend and a brother and these are very giving ppl and they are charming but they do have a dark side especially when you get close to them my friend known her for 7 yrs God mother to my kids I loved this friend and I really praised her and always was there for her I would take a bullet for her cuz when an Aries love sooo deep and we r sensitive but she used to put me down in a sarcastic way n I felt she wanted to hurt me when she said it but I use to brush it off cuz she's done so much for me n me for her and recently her roommate told me she was speaking of my husband wanted to screw her n she use to say so many mean things about me so as an Aries I confronted the situation with my husband and her roommate and her all together and I was so hurt that she had this hatred against me it broke my heart she couldn't say anything and wanted to leave the room and I that moment I found out who she really was I wish her the best but not in my life and my brother I've tried to b there for him emotionally physically and still didn't work definitely got stabbed in the back so just b careful if u feel too deeply and love deeply u might end up being their prey I know they might not all be like that I hope but I had enough of Libra I connect with them but will never ever be devoted to one again that's my experience n boy I'm still healing from the hurt but life moves on, This article makes me regret being a Libra :') What a pity my mother didn't postpone my birth. But always react to things I say. This has happened to me more than twice in my life at very different times and situations(in a relationship, almost boyfriend, friend, boss) with men and women libras. You want to see fire, you'll get the air ripped from your sales! When I started to find my feet and grow back into my own skin and started embracing life (I started sewing classes and then attending Couture workshops) she didn't want to know. He started as a lawyer, but quit and became famous for passive resistance. I stupidly had them pegged as pacifists, harmless COULD I BE MORE WRONG? 2023byTango Publishing Corporation All Rights Reserved. That's my fuel. When he learned I didn't own a car, he would "insist" on driving home from class. LIBRA: Libra tends to swallow their anger and sadness. She was married to my dad (scorpio) and she would throw tantrums and do everything to get her way. Libra women have some beauty about them because they're not trying too hard and keeping things easy. It will benefit her if you take the time to support her by giving her the means to explore her interests. (2) Really? If there's karma involved in my destiny I only wished I was child raped by a stranger not by my own brother. im not saying all libras are like this but my mother certainly is. The signs a Libra man is trying to hide his feelings aren't always that obvious but you can't really ignore the fact that he constantly smiles and laughs around you and his eyes are always sparkling when he sees you. Libra people are charming and very easy to attract you. At this time, she may begin to feel that she has been ignored by the people that she cares about most. Because Ive never seen that side of him. my libra daughter who is 17 has buddied up with my libra mother and she doesnt understand the evil in my mother. I am an Aries woman. When I say Mr. Libra 2 was pursuing me, it was LOVEBOMBING!!! But hard for the Librans who try their absolute best so show that they are genuine, and actually try to be even and open minded. This helped. We read articles books and stuff that interests us to gain a better understanding about ourselves and others, so we can become good at observing people and have a fair (that's a questionable statement) judgement in situations. I let her into my world denying my gut instinct and being the stupidly open person I can be, shared a few secrets - thankfully nothing shameful, just emotional things from my past. BUT that problem is that othervise I won't be able to see him properly, everyday. I think Libra's are not all heartless, but they tend to be very practical and don't marinate in their emotions a lot. Ive been with a Libra since aug 2018 and b4 that i was with a mental scorpio. They try to show that nothing is wrong. I tried several times to con myself that perhaps my gut instinct was off, I'd since found out she was a Libra, I'd never met one until then (that's a whole 36 years without knowing a Libra, I wasn't missing anything). Libras (born Sept. 23 to Oct. 22), for instance, are said to be focused on others and how they relate to them. All the while, she is very bubbly and acts charming to get information about others. ), I want to add something. Thank God doctors brought me back alive. So, the best step is to find the bravery to show him what a great partner you could be. Libra women, when sad or upset, often find that their behaviors betray their emotional turmoil. Albeit we have a dark side to us that is one a Libra should NEVER fully embrace (Because once we go darkside..the path of pain and destruction from us will be relentless) we also have a light side that shines brighter than any other in this world. Libras are known for being charming, beautiful, and well-balanced. I must agree with fellow commentors that your distaste for this sign is merely a reflection of your own negativity and distorted observations. Really a Pisces dreamworld is the realest compared to it. (3) I had the "right" appearance for him to be seen with. They are tooo real people to be fake. Question: I was born on December 20th, but my family members say that my zodiac sign is Libra. We work from the shadows, you'd figure that would be a Scorpio thing being ruled by Pluto, but despite being ruled by Venus, our (hermit) like needs tend to make us more powerful in our endeavors when we are in solitude to let our mental powers loose. im sorry manipulative, insecure to the point where they compete with their friends(trying to outshine me and gets moody cos it doesnt work), full of lies.. attention seeking. Libra (September 23 - October 22) She may have a hard time . Their sadness is one of hopelessness and they're prone to giving into it. I wouldn't trade my beautuful Libra baddie for nothing. I'm Aquarius and many followed after constellations Libra and always pretended I did not notice, but they are so careful people! Because I can't see positive future at some point. If you are looking to learn about what happens when each zodiac sign is sad, then take this time to develop your capacity for empathy and compassion, as this will help you support the people who are in your life. Wow, basically summed me all up. The Libra 2 guy I knew literally created a conflict between a Sagitarrius girl I did NOT know -- she was sending me DM's telling me how much she HATED me and I was thinking, I don't know this girl and she doesn't know me except for seeing photos of me with Mr. Libra on Facebook. Undoubtedly, they are much easier than the older generation, succumb to feelings. Libra men are so controlling and a manipulative person Im a Scorpio so that didnt last long with me. So good luck living. They are the cause to my misery. Aug. 18, 2021, 9:03 a.m. Bye bitch see ya never. She only wants information to use against them. when, in fact, your sign might have some deeper insights into your personality traits instead of just scratching the surface. Just dont bother try cheering up a Libran when they are in a bad mood. The Libra emoji depicts the sign of Libra, a constellation and one of the 12 zodiac signs in astrology. Finally, to our regret, years later we gave up and let the kids go since she was ruining our and their lives in the process of her severe selfishness. Commenting is something I don't do often, because it might throw me off the balance that I am so precious about haha, but once in blue moon I take risks and considering the topic I feel like it's worth a go. Did i learn a lot! But I've also tried to genuinely fix my mistakes and repair the damage I cause because of my behavior. Mr. Libra 2 was buying me gifts, showing up at my house (uninvited) and sent me a message saying he "Loved me with every fiber of his being"! They're good communicators and mediators; they know what words that all the patience and wise people would say, so you would believe them and even sympathise with them. "Whoa is me"..libra. I am POSITIVE I am not the only libra who thinks this. Mmm chocolate. I, love helping people and animals and LOVE them. Very nice guy. Why not radiate Love instead, and shine your light bright enough to dissipate any shadow you happen upon? But, because I get impatient and irritated at other people's indecisiveness, I learned to make quick decisions and move on. Well, Mr. Libra 1 must have gotten "turned on" by my comment because he Facebook friended me and took the initiative to send me a "Hey" message but must have changed his Libra mind and sent me a second (bizarre) message that was an obvious LIE, claiming he thought he was sending the message to his sister. Depends on the day of the month you were born. All scorpios are poison and made out to be like we're the horrible ones. People should understand that not every Libran is the same. This can harm their relationship with others. So one must learn to defend themselves from harmful emotions. See additional information. I'll counter her with a weapon she despises kicking and screaming back into her own pit of hell yes, I'll kill her with my own personal happiness! The stereotype that portrays us like a sweet candy floss and charming lucky charms is so misleading. When they do express themselves, they tend to be very passionate and open-minded. Libras are the nicest people of all the signs until you rub us the wrong way. Libra loves to cooperate and is incredibly diplomatic, so she'll be right there with you throughout the entire apology making sure you both are on the same page. Think of Mahatma Gandhi. If you've got a libra like that - RUN! Libras are known to hide their real feelings in order to avoid conflicts with the people around them. But their dark side is an endless abyss of self-serving, manipulative, victim-based behavior. That would be my control issue. The UKs WORST politicians are librans: Thatcher, Cameron and May. A Libra mom still reminds her 50-year-old daughters to say thank you.. If look from the good side we're doing you a favor before you meet our Lucifer side so you must be happy :). We are the angel and the demon in one and we are enthralled with both sides equallythough we have a secret love and a secret draw towards the power of our darkness. Libra is one of the most balanced signs, but when depressed, they tend to have feelings of instability and moodiness, with a reduced urge to socialize. Because it's almost impossible to feel sorry for them. They are popular works as well and everything that motivates them is to please themselves under the guise of providing the other. Trying to keep everything balanced and perfect and then blaming myself if everyone isn't happy. It is certain that she will appreciate having someone in her life who will give her a safe place to share the stresses that she is managing. When sadness tips that balance. Other zodiac signs may be a little bit more subtle about this. If you are intent on finding love, Libran partners have the reputation of being the most charming and easy-going of all the zodiac signs. She doesn't have money or a job with 3 kids luckily I still support my kids and back to her parents house. I, might be a good actor to not-so-close people, or to be more accurate, the mirror - to be exact same reflection of themselfs. Her friends, family members, or partner may begin to feel that she chooses to undermine their relationships. They're so charming, and appear to be understanding at first. The ones i know are just crazy,they put other's in danger with their pseudo judgements,cool you don't like drama,then think better if you don't like to see people suffer,no wonder aries is the opposite,you have to be ignorant and strong like an aries to let go so easy of so much bull a libra can ask for. She talks shit about everyone and try to coaxes you into hating those people that she hates as well. TaurusGrounded and steady, this fixed earth sign has more mental and emotional strength than the average sign. Then he would get mad insanely mad when ignored. That Libra/Leo thing was just ugly - self important, secretly power crazed, a seducer, and let's not forget, she's a Cusp of Virgo Libra. Don't ignore a Leo or disrespect us for too long! angry messages from friends and acquaintances without any apparent cause. I love, appreciate, care and support all those close ones who accept and love me for who I am. In turn, this will give her a chance to build a new life on a strong foundation. (2) I didn't have to work (I had investment income). I am a bi Leo female and fell for this Libra woman, who I have been friends with for around 2-3 years, and fell for her over a year ago. However, when she is under emotional stress, it is likely that she will begin to feel uncertain or confused about decisions that she has previously made. Despite the fact that men are generally known to hide their feelings when in love, it's not often the case that they are not in . For me i prefer friends who speak brutal true than sweet but fake words. Mother problems? Once they see that another can give better, they will give themselves over to another (but they wont leave you, ever. The only reason I can think of is that, it is because we hide ourself so well in public that we carry all the annoyances and irritation back home, to a place we do not need to hide and while at home, the slightest irritation can wreck havoc. In fact the way one reacts to whatever angers them is much more beyond a zodiac sign. How do you know when to let go of someone you love? After everything happened I moved on to another relationship and was starting to become happy again. She was very kind, gracious and loving when she met my children, giving them a few minutes and taking time to talk with them, and she remembered them when meeting her again the following year. Considering the importance of maintaining a good relationship with a Libra woman, we invite you to look through our article collection about how to have a healthy relationship with a Libra woman, as this will provide you with a host of tools to help you successfully navigate your relationship. I read a comment saying that a libra was only fixated on her friends failures not her success and was thinking that's not a real friend. But that is a learned thing. Libra is a sign ruled by Venus, which means Libras prefer to use logic over emotion. S-so libras stuff i didnt know. im sorry libras act like thisi havent acted like that but i guess that comes when you grow up im sorry AChandler78 Interesting and winded monologue just not sure if you believe your bs or just working tirelessly to convince us? They exhibit intense melancholy with paranoia, and their own thoughts become scary to them. A negative Libra will move in with or marry someone to escape the financial or emotional pit they have dug for themselves. Especially those of you who have been in relationships with 2 or 3 Libras in a row, are you crazy or just looking to make yourself miserable. Throughout the years we dated other people but always kept in contact with each other. Not all Librans try to make it up to people, but I know a good portion of them out there do. We will love to the ends of time and to our very detriment and will give chance after chance after chance to prove your self. Remember there are THREE sides to every story: yours, theirs, and the TRUTH. I have zero desires to be a negative libra but honestly don't how to turn it around or even if I can. I use to be a joyful person and chose to spread that joy until i actually got out of dreamland and saw reality and i just lost all hope in humanity so if reading this comment and this article amuses you or disgust you and youd rather have bitter, souless people in your life like ive become then ruin someones accidental innocent hope of life and the world. Dark-side Librans ignore or hush up reports of pain or unpleasantness and fool themselves that things they don't acknowledge didn't happen. And I suspect that he would sexually rape his ex-wife little sister when she was about 10 y/o and I was about 14, but then I never had any proofs of it nor she ever said anything about it, like I myself never did say a word with fear, when I was being raped for all those nights. What makes worse about him is that he is double faced and people can only see his bright side, that he is helpful to people, he helps my sister financially, he cares about my parents and is looking after them. 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